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Here’s The Reality Of Self-Love, And Why It’s So Important

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We were always told that we won’t be capable to love others if we do not learn to love ourselves first. But when you think about it, we are often taught how to love others, bend over backwards for people who wouldn’t do the same for us, and go beyond the capability of delivering love and effort for other people but not for ourselves.

We are often made to believe that it’s okay to accept the kind of love we think we deserve and never beyond that. That it’s okay to leave ourselves out from the love we so freely give away. The love that we willingly give only to have nothing left for ourselves.
We often think doing so is right until it warps our mind to thinking that self worth is not learning to love ourselves first, but learning to love other people so we could be capable of loving ourselves.

So that we may think doing more for people makes us a better person. That putting others before ourselves justifies our self worth for the amount of love and effort we put out. And while there are more factors that leads us to false sense of self love, it’s about time we change that and make it as what it should really be.

Loving yourself shouldn’t be because of anyone else and definitely shouldn’t be because you want to be able to love someone else better. We should be accepting of our flaws because the reality is that at the end of the day, the only person you truly have is yourself.

We can’t always keep thinking someone is going to be there for us at 4 am when you’re feeling the weight of the world and in need of someone to talk it out with just like you would if someone else was in your shoes. And for that we have to be stronger for ourselves.

We need to learn to pick ourselves up off the floor and continue to be a functional human being. Our body is our home, we can’t live in it peacefully if we mentally keep on destroying it.
Our self worth shouldn’t be solely based on how much satisfaction we get by overexerting effort and love.

Why can’t we learn to do that to ourselves? Why can’t we love ourselves just the same?

We should be encouraging ourselves, no matter how hard it is to be genuinely content about our well-being, that little efforts still contributes to building ourselves up for the kind of love we truly deserve. We should not lessen our standards of love. We should be expecting to be loved the way we want to be and truly deserved to be loved and not just accepting of what we think is enough and most of all, give love and still keep a little (a lot) for yourself.

You are worth more than you think you do and you should never have to feel guilty of never delivering or catering enough to other peoples need. You are what’s important and you are what you need to focus on –not other people.

Article reference: https://thoughtcatalog.com/alyssa-lexine/2016/08/heres-the-reality-of-self-love-and-why-its-important/

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23 Realist Souljaboy Quotes

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Here I have gathered quotes and sayings by Souljaboy (mostly from his twitter page!). I hope you enjoy them. And I hope Souljaboy sees this one day!

1. I pay attention to shit you wouldn't even think I'm paying attention to.

2. I can't be around weak minded mfs

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3. I taught Drake everything he knows.

5. Don't involve yourself in shit that has nothing to do with you.

6. What we talk about in private will never be displayed to the public.

7. Don't care about my past, leave it where it's at

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8. I was one of the first artists to have a youtube account, if not the first. I joined two months after the site launched.

9. I'm on some other shit

10. Idc how I'm viewed, I know me. I'm good.

11. My life is a movie

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12. Everybody not built like you, so never expect the same in return.

13. When people don't like you they'll ride with anybody that's against you

14. A lot of muthafuckas can't handle real so they call it disrespectful.

15. When they can't use you they gone bash you. They never was with you.

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16. Fuck being real in my face. Try speaking up when it's behind my back. That's what you call a real nigga

17. Sometimes that hurt changes you for the better

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18. Some days I just don't like to be bothered

19. Niggaz don't know if they wanna beef with you or be your fan

20. Swag defines an artist, period.

21. LOL at these unloyal ass people how do you live with yourself knowing you a fake SMH

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22. If I'm going to make music for the streets or the clubs or whatever, I go at it with 110 percent

23. Start venting to God... He not gone tell nobody

So what did you think about these quotes? Which one is your favourite? Do leave a comment down below, I look forward to reading your views 🙂

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15 Deep Wiz Khalifa Quotes

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Here are 15 deep Wiz Khalifa quotes that I put together.

1. Even with whatever people want to label me with, there are so many other sides to me.

2. Being single doesn't always mean being available. Sometimes you have to put up a sign that says 'do not disturb' on your heart.

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3. Good things come in good time.

4. I'm shy. Most people don't take the time to get to know me. They don't take the time to explore the real me.

5. Anything you want, you can get. You gotta build it though.

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6. We must get hurt in order to grow, fail in order to know, and lose in order to gain. Because some lessons in life are best learned through pain.

7. There are consequences to every decision.

8. Be careful what you say to someone today. Because tomorrow they might not be here, and you can't take it back.

9. I come from a place where people get high, the grades get low, and if someone has a secret, everyone knows.

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10. I have an idea of who I want to be, I have a vision of my own.

11. Whatever I do, I do it because I want to do it and because it's completely, 100% me.

12. Don't let the sadness from the past and the future, ruin the happiness of the present.

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13. I am not a facebook status, you do not have to like me.

14. I've done a lot of work to get where I'm at, but I have to keep working.

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15. Depending on how it's going, we only gonna get tougher.

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1200 Motivational Quotes (Part 11)

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291. Growth and change can be painful, but nothing is as painful as being stuck somewhere you don't belong

292. Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune.

293. People won't change until they want to. You only can spark a thought in their mind and it's up to them to ponder on it or discard it.

294. Dreams are there to inspire and motivate you, but at the end of each day don't forget to have a reality check: did you do anything that took you closer to your dreams? Always remember that dreams don't work unless you do

295. Life is like a game of chess. To win you have to make a move. Knowing which move to make comes with in-sight and knowledge, and by learning the lessons that are acculated along the way. We become each and every piece within the game called life.

296. Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going.

297. Never let a bad situation bring out the worst in you. Be strong and choose to be positive.

298. Being hurt is a byproduct of being human. The smartest are those who take the lessons with them so they don't make the same mistake twice and the strongest are the ones who learn and keep living with an open heart. The best people do both.

299. Change the way you frame your thoughts. Instead of being upset that you aren't where you want to be, be excited for what you will be.

300. Hustle more and complain less

301. The one who falls and gets up is so much stronger than the one who never fell.

302. I'm not arrogant, I'm just humble enough to know that I'm a different thing and not everyone deserves to know me.

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303. Success is sweet and sweeter if long delayed and gotten through many struggles and defeats

304. Circle gets smaller and smaller until youre left with nobody but yourself. Keep that the tightest circle you will ever know.

305. I like a state of continual becoming, with a goal in front and not behind

306. Gotta move different if you want different things

307. Life is a grindstone. Whether it grinds us down or polishes us up depends on us

308. Your mind has the power to change all of the outer aspects of your life. You create your life from the inside out.

309. With the new day comes new strength

310. Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will never go any higher than you think

311. Never bother to be better than anyone else except your previous self.

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312. Not everything that can be counted counts, and not everything that counts can be counted

313. Do your best to get as far away from negativity in your life. It'll only bring you down.

314. Always appreciate where you are in your journey. You may not be where you want to be, but anything worth having takes time.

315. Mindset is everything. Once you believe you can achieve something, you most likely will.

316. How many times will you tell yourself that you deserve better until you actually do something about it? Take action now and give yourself the life you deserve. People won't help you, only you can help you.

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317. Your purpose should drive you. Your purpose should keep you going when set backs come your way. Your purpose should give you the mental toughness to move forward until you get where you want to be in life.

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