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9 Steps To A Wealthier You (Part 2)

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2. Blame (He did it!)

The next level on the Wealth Consciousness scale is Blame. At this point one has looked at money, but refuses to take responsibility for not having it, or in some cases, for having it. 

We love to blame. It’s so easy. It makes so much sense. It’s so convenient. Everyone can relate to it. There are so many people to blame too. Not just the people we know, obvious ones like partners, parents, siblings and relatives. There are teachers, staff, store attendants, even complete strangers. You will never make money while you sit around blaming anything or anyone – no matter how valid your reasons. Even if the buggers did mess it up. the question is not why they did it, or how they could have done it, or why they should fix it (because it’s their fault, dammit!). The only question is, what are you going to do about it? Yes, you!

You cannot change anyone, or anything out there. It is just not possible. You can only change yourself, and then everything and everyone out there changes too, because everything is connected. While you are in blame you cannot take responsibility, and you cannot create change. When you are in this state you are continuously disempowering yourself. You are giving your power away to whatever is out there that you blame for your condition 

When you are in blame you become smaller and more closed, you become the victim, and someone or something out there is causing things to happen in your life instead of you causing them to happen. People in blame usually ask ‘why?’ a lot instead of ‘how?’ or ‘what?’

It is very much of the minority who ask ‘How can I get rich?’ or ‘What do I need to do to make money?’ If you do not ask the right questions about money (or about anything for that matter), you will not get useful answers.

Blame is clearly linked to laziness – for while you blame ‘them’ out there, you can also sit around and wait for ‘them’ to fix things. It’s not your problem. You do not have to do anything. You don’t need to take responsibility.

Give a little thought to BLAME:

-Who do I blame for where I am in my life at present?

-Who do I blame with regard to money?

-What am I not taking responsibility for in the area of money?

-What am I hiding behind?

-How can I take responsibility for change, today?

The bridge between blame and responsibility is forgiveness. It is a truly cleansing and liberating experience to let go of blame and grudge. It is often enough to simply think about anyone you need to forgive – their names or faces will pop up in your mind. Then, with the clear focus of your intent, decide to forgive the, right here and now in this moment. Say to them, in your mind, ‘I forgive you’. Then let it go. Whatever ‘it’ is.

Decide right now, that your business with such people is finished. Release them, and release yourself. Decide it is over. Then move on. Let go of blame. Decide to take responsibility. Well done! You are responsible. What are you going to do with the responsibility for your wealth? Remember, if you take responsibility, then you can decide that you can do anything you want to do. Because who can stop you if the responsibility rests with you? No one!

Give a little thought to RESPONSIBILITY:

-Who is responsible for creating wealth for me?

-What can I do to take responsibility for the money in my life?

-How can I become totally responsible for creating wealth?

-What do I need to do to increase my level of responsibility in the area of money?

-What responsibility do I embrace in my life, today?

 

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100 Beautiful Things You Deserve Forever

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100 Beautiful Things You Deserve Forever

Even if you believe you don’t deserve these things, trust me – you do.

1. You deserve to feel grateful that you’re alive and breathing.

2. You deserve to be happy, even on your bad days.

3. You deserve to wake up every morning and smile.

4. You deserve to heal from all the things that keep weighing you down.

5. You deserve to find happiness in the simplest of things.

6. You deserve to be supported no matter what life throws at you.

7. You deserve to be loved for being you.

8. You deserve to be loved unconditionally even when you’re difficult.

9. You deserve to laugh and enjoy life more.

10. You deserve to be like a flower that grows through the dirt.

11. You deserve to be your best self.

12. You deserve to be successful.

13. You deserve to let go of toxic people and situations.

14. You deserve to move forward in life.

15. You deserve to leave friendships that don’t help you grow.

16. You deserve to stay away from people that keep harming your soul.

17. You deserve to be at your best version ever.

18. You deserve to feel beautiful, even when you don’t feel like it.

19. You deserve to be someone who has a smile that never fades.

20. You deserve to be someone who is full of love, light and life.

21. You deserve to be celebrated, even if it’s just by yourself.

22. You deserve to give yourself a break from all the hard work that you do.

23. You deserve to take yourself out on dates.

24. You deserve to treat yourself on the things that make you happy.

25. You deserve to achieve all your goals and dreams.

26. You deserve to be a powerful human being.

27. You deserve to feel strong no matter how weak you feel.

28. You deserve to have a loving and supportive family.

29. You deserve to love yourself.

30. You deserve to see nothing but good in other people.

31. You deserve to be surrounded by light, not darkness.

32. You deserve to look in the mirror and feel proud of what you see.

33. You deserve to feel like you matter.

34. You deserve to overcome all your hardships and problems.

35. You deserve to be someone people can look up to.

36. You deserve to be a good parent.

37. You deserve to have children that will always respect you.

38. You deserve to have a beautiful pregnancy experience.

39. You deserve to marry a faithful spouse.

40. You deserve to be a great supportive wife.

41. You deserve to be a great supportive husband.

42. You deserve to be someone your family can always rely on.

43. You deserve to have everything under control.

44. You deserve to live your life stress free.

45. You deserve to overcome your depression that keeps drowning you.

46. You deserve to overcome your horrible anxiety.

47. You deserve to have blessings fill your life.

48. You deserve to wake up everyday and feel like your life is a happy miracle.

49. You deserve loyalty, royalty and respect.

50. You deserve so much but you don’t understand it.

51. You deserve to sleep in all positions without feeling like your back hurts.

52. You deserve to not have anything constantly worry you.

53. You deserve to think positively at all times.

54. You deserve to be surrounded by positivity in a world full of negativity.

55. You deserve to go shopping whenever you want to go.

56. You deserve to be financially stable enough to buy whatever you want.

57. You deserve to buy all the latest makeup and fashion trends.

58. You deserve to be a girly girl without feeling shameful about it.

59. You deserve to feel like a strong and powerful man.

60. You deserve to have authority over your own life.

61. You deserve to be the CEO of your own life.

62. You deserve to build and live in your own comfortable home.

63. You deserve to live a luxury lifestyle.

64. You deserve amazing health.

65. You deserve to see a medical report which tells you that you’re healthy.

66. You deserve to be a mentally, emotionally and physically healthy person.

67. You deserve to make mistakes and learn from them.

68. You deserve to feel and be told that you matter, no matter what.

69. You deserve to overcome your struggles.

70. You deserve to let go of your fears and be stronger than them.

71. You deserve to prove your haters wrong.

72. You deserve to succeed through all the problems.

73. You deserve to enjoy the little things.

74. You deserve all the fine things in life.

75. You deserve to ask God for forgiveness.

76. You deserve to sleep peacefully.

77. You deserve to have a healthy timetable.

78. You deserve to have a consistent sleeping pattern.

79. You deserve to get enough sleep to conquer the next day with great energy.

80. You deserve to be in good spirits at all times.

81. You deserve to have friends that bring joy into your life.

82. You deserve to go on adventures where you can make special memories.

83. You deserve to have escape vacations and come back feeling refreshed.

84. You deserve to travel around the world and gain rich experiences.

85. You deserve to be a better person than you ever were before.

86. You deserve to get out of your comfort zone and live life fully.

87. You deserve to become more smarter and intelligent.

88. You deserve to live a very very very long and prosperous life.

89. You deserve to cry, but only out of happiness.

90. You deserve to receive warm hugs that make you feel safe.

91. You deserve to feel safe in such a dangerous world.

92. You deserve to heal from all the bad things you have been through in life.

93. You deserve to see the light where you keep seeing darkness.

94. You deserve to make reality so much better than your dreams.

95. You deserve to know that your past doesn’t define you.

96. You deserve to be looked after and cared for on your weakest days.

97. You deserve to speak your emotions without feeling guilty about it.

98. You deserve to have a voice without feeling small.

99. You deserve to constantly have something great to look forward to.

100. You deserve a life that excites you and makes you want to actually live.

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What other things do you deserve that you can add to this list? Please leave a comment below, I would love to know your thoughts 🙂

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Hey everyone my website is under construction. I’m working on new blog posts and better landing pages. Also I’m working on the navigation of my website as some links are broken. Please bear with me while I try to maintain a better quality of my site. In the meantime, you can still browse through the existing content. Thank You for your understanding and patience In advance!

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100 Deep Quotes And Sayings About Depression That Everyone Should Know (Part 7)

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69. Depression is anger turned inward.

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70. What do you want to do with your life, then? is often the question I'm asked. To be honest, I don't know. I really don't.

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71. The sun stopped shining for me is all.

72. Do you know that feeling? When everything you do seems like a struggle. Where you dont wanna leave the house because you know everyone is judging you. Where you cant even ask for directions in fear that they criticise you. Where everyone always seems to be picking out your flaws. That feeling where you feel so damn sick for no reason. Do you know that feeling where you look in the mirror and completely hate what you see. When you grab handfuls and handfuls of fat and just want to cut it all off. That feeling when you see other beautiful girls and just wish you looked like them.

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73. What people never understand is that depression isn't about the outside; it's about the inside. Something inside me is wrong. Sure, there are things in my life that make me feel alone, but nothing makes me feel more isolated and terrified than my own voice inside my head.

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74. No reason to feel depressed about being depressed. A depression can be a golden opportunity to collect the pieces and build ourselves anew.

75. Isolation and loneliness are central causes of depression and despair.

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76. Sometimes, all you can do is lie in bed, and hope to fall asleep before you fall apart.

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77. Pain is always emotional. Fear and depression keep constant company with chronic hurting.

78. I never knew it was possible to be so miserable in so many ways.

79. I wanted a heaven. And I grew up striving for that world -- an eternal world- that would wash away my temporary misery.

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81. If you take action while you are made, you will always make the wrong decision.

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